Red flags in a child’s development parents must never ignore

SIGNS OF DEVELOPMENTAL DELAY
Pregnancy
- Complications during the 9 months of pregnancy.
- Excessive vomiting etc, even after the 4th month of pregnancy.
- Baby not moving adequately inside the womb till birth.
Delivery
- Pain and contractions before the bag burst and the water leaked.
- Caesarian delivery due to problems during birth.
- Baby did not cry soon or right after birth.
Age : 0-1 year
- Baby excessively quiet or cranky in the hospital after birth, or continued to be quiet or cranky in the next 4-5 months.
- Baby unable to suck/breast feed in the days following the birth, or doing so with difficulty.
- Baby had breathing difficulty or a seizure episode soon after birth/stay at the hospital.
- Repetition of such problems after discharge, at home.
- Baby did not feed adequately.
- Baby did not pass urine easily.
- Baby not looking at the mother and the familiar faces after few weeks.
- Does not smile at them, hold on to the mother’s finger while feeding, settle down comfortably when picked up.
- Does not start holding up his/her head, roll over, reach out with hands, kick feet in air, laugh, gurgle, be startled by loud sounds or understand when scolded.
- Does not come up to sitting independently, stand up, take a few steps.
- Does not babble.
- Does not want to convey something when talking – not saying something meaningfully, but just randomly repeating words without any purpose.
- Does not enjoy songs/nursery rhymes or does not want to join in on the songs.
- Does not look at books/pictures.
- Does not point at things.
Age : 1-2 years
- Baby not comfortable with strangers and familiar people alike after 1 year of age.
- Not responding to command.
- Use of words restricted to 4-5 keywords.*
- No speaking in phrases.
- Falling down often.*
- Poor eye-hand coordination – unable to throw a ball in a bucket at a distance.*
- Difficulty in calming down. for example – continuous crying over trivial matters.*
- Inability to sleep for a long time.
- Peculiar tastes in food – Would not eat a certain texture of food, or a certain color of food.
- Walking started at an age of 1.5 yrs or higher.*
Age : 2-3 years
- Unable to re-tell a known story in the right sequence.
- Is not interested in keeping a conversation going.*
- Likes repetitive games.*
- Hyperactivity or complete disinterest (Either extreme).*
- No pretend play.*
- Not interested in books / not reading even picture books.
Age : 3-5 years(Pre-school)
- Hyperactivity.*
- No play with peers.*
- Staying by self in a group.*
- Very good imitation skills.
- Disruptive behavior with peers – pinching, pulling hair, biting, hitting.
- Repetition of classes over 2 years or more.*
- Inability to play with peers in park/playground environment.
Age : 5+ years (School)
- Inability to maintain friendships.*
- Consistently bad marks in subjects* – despite tuition/after school classes.
- Extremely Bad handwriting – illegible.*
- Continued disruptive behaviours.*
- Recurring symptoms like stomach pain, headache.*
- Hyperactivity may or may not happen.
Featured image : Painting of an Indian Mother by Ilayaraja
